“I miss the love we had.”
Are you feeling this these days? It’s hard to experience, especially when everything was so perfect …
Like a dream it was.
Swept off your feet, with
a skip in your step.
You felt their love for you. It was undeniable.
They simply adored you, and weren’t afraid to show it.
Inside jokes, little gifts, surprise gestures and all those nights talking and cuddling together.
You were a team, in your own bubble.
Everything outside, was, well outside.
Any dream was possible, and all was within reach.
Oh love! You would do anything to get it back, right?
We know.
We know how hard it is when you realize something else might be going on.
When you start to notice that maybe you are giving more than you are receiving.
That you are catering more to their needs and desires than your own.
And doing all you can to help ease their stress. But, are they helping to ease your stress? Are they listening?
You may ask for help, and express concerns but nothing seems to get through.
So you find yourself exhausted and overwhelmed, like many codependents do.
Confusing, frustrating moments.
Over-analyzing and ruminating about your relationship.
Trying various things — with little results.
It is exhausting.
But, you are here now, and you are not alone.
All hope is not lost.
It is possible to reignite the love you shared with your partner.
It is possible to heal codependency.
We know, because we’ve seen it happen.
And we want that for you too.
The first step is to siphon through the complexity of your relationship dynamics, to find out if you are a codependent and what kind of attachment style you have.
Because by understanding your attachment style, you can uncover the root cause.
And the root cause is one of the keys to reigniting your relationship, allowing in what you desire most — authentic love.
Are you codependent?
How to spot the signs of a codependent relationship.
7 signs of a codependent dynamic
✓ Giving more than you receive
✓ Loss of interest in your own hobbies and interests
✓ Constantly thinking about your partner and your relationship
✓ Feeling exhausted, and sacrificing time for yourself to help your partner
✓ Unable to or afraid to tell your partner how you feel or what you need
✓ Not wanting to confront your partner or set clear boundaries
✓ Wanting reassurance from your partner
The good news?
You can heal codependency
and Love School can help.
Step 1
The first step is to take our anxious attachment quiz.
Find out what kind of attachment style you have and how it’s impacting your codependent patterns.
Lasting Authentic Love
Does your relationship have what it takes?
1. You are ready to heal
You are ready to look at your past and take inventory of your relationship history
You want to prioritize yourself and your needs and desires
2. You’re both committed
Your partner wants to make your relationship work
Your partner is committed to you and willing to discuss what you need and give as well as receive
3. You have structure and support
You have a structure in place for growth and change.
Love School can help you with this.
There is hope and Love School can help.
Build secure attachments with Love School
The Love School program offers a three-prong approach to heal anxious attachment. We believe that coursework expands your knowledge, coaching integrates that knowledge, and community empowers you to put it into action.
6 course units
Our program offers six main units in the anxious attachment course, with 23+ video lessons on attachment styles, overcoming insecurity, mastering emotions, relationships and more.
Tools that help you heal
Learn about attachment styles and improve self-worth
24/7 community access
Love School has a thriving community of members, offering various ways to connect. Members share stories, experiences, their wins and challenges, and form healthy bonds with one another.
Curated online community led by our team of coaches
Peers sharing experiences and support
Group and 1:1 Coaching
Our team has decades of expertise in various areas including attachment and childhood trauma, cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness and more.
DM chat with therapists
Daily activities and live therapy group sessions with coaches
Take the first step by learning about your attachment style.
The Love School Program
Love School is here to help you feel calm, peaceful and less anxious.
If you join Love School today you’ll receive:
Coaching
Instant access to Psychologists and Coaches
Get immediate insight on what you’re going through right now.
Connect with coaches over DM chat.
Join live group therapy sessions daily.
Optional schedule 1:1 therapy sessions for discounted rate of 4 for $399
Coursework
Access to all 23 course modules and videos
You’ll get started with lessons on attachment styles, overcoming insecurity, mastering emotions, relationships and more.
Essential tools that you can take with you anywhere.
Exercises that help you gain clarity during anxious times.
Insight into yourself and your partners — past, present, and future.
Community
Your invitation to our 24/7 online community space
We’ve built a beautiful environment where members share stories, chat, attend group sessions, take in new daily content, and sometimes just hang out. Simply: friends and peers help the healing process.
Once you join you will receive your invitation to come in and say hello. Members just like you are waiting to welcome you.
Pricing
The Love School Program is a monthly membership plan for $99/per month.
Join today for as long as you need, ending your membership when you feel ready.
We also offer a 6-month Signature Membership for those who want peace of mind and savings that come from a pre-payment option.
The monthly membership includes:
Month-to-month access
23+ courses
Daily group therapy sessions
DM chat with coaches
Discounted rate on 1:1 coaching
(4 sessions for $399)
The signature membership includes everything in the monthly membership, plus:
Six-month community access
12 Prepaid 1:1 coaching credits
Access to longer, 75-minute coaching (Booked as 1½ credits)
Personalized self soothing, meditation and visualization exercises
Our Team
Our team consists of certified & licensed psychologists and coaches.
Elisa Monti, PhD
Dr. Elisa Monti is a voice-specialized psychologist with a PhD from The New School for Social Research, with a focus on attachment and childhood trauma.
LeMeita Smith, PhD
Dr. LeMeita Smith is a mental health director and wellness expert with over 17 years of experience in therapy. She helps people build mental strength, develop life skills, and overcome life crises.
Hannah Rivera, MSc
Hannah Rivera is a certified psychologist and psychotherapist with a masters in clinical psychology from the Hellenic American University. She’s an expert at CBT and psychodynamic therapy.
Melissa Maxx, Coach & Author
Melissa is a certified coach and best-selling author specialized in relationships and attachment, and with a focus on mindfulness, self-esteem, and self-worth.
Michelle Fernandes, MA
Michelle holds a psychology degree and is our community manager. She is here to make sure everything flows smoothly for you and you have success in your journey with Love School.
We’ve helped 3,266 beautiful people to heal and grow.
Are you ready to take action, heal your codependency and find authentic love?
Many of us have been there.
Like, Lucia, who struggled in her relationship for years.
Wrought with anxiety, she felt she had to tip-toe around her husband unless she wanted to get a snappy response back.
But, how was she supposed to ask for what she wanted and needed?
She tried to do everything to make him happy. Cooking his favorite meals, making sure their house was clean, and even running his errands.
But when she asked why he didn’t help her clean the kitchen, he didn’t seem to care. When she asked that they go to her aunt’s birthday party, he seemed annoyed.
Did he not see everything she was doing?
When he was stressed, she would bring him a drink and listen.
But when she was late to his work party, he was angry.
She ended up exhausted.
About to give up, she wondered, is it possible to turn this around?
That is when she joined Love School, and she was able to take a look inward, instead of outward.
She realized she had stopped doing things she loved — walking with her girlfriends, shopping, and working on her career.
She was so focused on him, getting his attention back, that she overlooked her own needs.
And, she wasn’t happy.
Love School was just the break she needed to get re-set.
She learned she was codependent and had an anxious attachment style.
She learned how to self-soothe and improve her self-worth by doing the things she loved.
And when she felt better, she was able to talk to her partner in a more constructive way — a way he could hear her.
They went from not talking to talking more.
To no date nights, to weekly dates out with friends.
And to both of them addressing and caretaking of each of their needs.
It’s possible for Lucia, and it’s possible for you, too.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Most students experience their first shift in how they feel about themselves within 2 weeks. However, we believe it takes the full length of the program (3 months) to see a lasting change. It really isn’t all that complicated once you have the right guidance.
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Love Addicts is based on proven psychology methods and therapies. After being on Love Addicts for a few weeks, you will feel the following changes in your life:
You will feel more comfortable around people
You will see yourself as a valuable and worthy person
You will start loving yourself more, and worrying less about what others think
You will know how to deal with anxiety whenever it comes up (which it will)
Your relationships will improve as a result of you becoming more secure (secure is attractive!)
Other people might notice you becoming more confident, calm, and happy
You will find it easier to be social and find love
If you are in a relationship, you will have a lot more clarity about the relationship
Ready to heal?
Join Love School Today!
Before you join, we want to know we can help you.
The quiz is free and only takes 1 minute to complete.
You will learn what your attachment style likely is.
If your attachment style is anxious, Love School is built for you.