Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How do I find a coach that feels right for me?
We're a small team, so you'll get to know all the coaches pretty well when you join the community.
Coaches release daily bites videos with short form content. So you can take some time to get to know a coach's style and the things they like to work on. If a daily bite resonates with you and you'd like to explore it more it's a good sign you could work well with 1:1.
Coaches also hold small daily group sessions. Your membership includes unlimited access to those, so you can always join a session with a coach and see if it feels like a good fit. Wonderful work can be done in group, so you may find it’s like having 3 coaches to work with all the time.
Q: Will my one-on-one coaching be with the same coach?
Yes - most people tend to stick with one coach for 1:1 sessions when they're just starting out. All Love School coaches have committed to giving at least 30 days notice if they are going to be unavailable for 1:1.
Q: Will my one-on-one coaching be with the same coach?
Yes - you're always free to try out 1:1 with another coach. Sometimes life offers us new challenges and we find ourselves navigating something we want another perspective on. Or we may find that we've grown and would like to work on something new that is more in another coach's strengths. You’re free to do that as it’s right for you.
Q: How do I navigate the site?
Everything runs through our online community forum. It's a small but always growing community and we Love to welcome new people.
You start out on the home feed where you have all the recent coach and member posts. You can see everything that's gone on in the community since you last logged in. From there you can click over to the courses, special chat and posting spaces, or the ask an expert space. You can also click over to your DMs and chat with coaches, or join a daily group session.
You can access Love School in two main ways:
- Most folks use the Love School app or their mobile web browser because it's easiest for them.
- But you can also use your computer web browser at https://community.loveschool.com.
Both experiences bring you to the same community environment.
Q: How fast will I become secure?
Most people experience their first shift in how they feel about themselves within 2 weeks. However, everyone’s lived experience and healing journey is a little different. Love School is built to be a supportive environment where we can heal and grow at our own pace.
Love School courses are designed to be completed in as little as 3 months. They are self paced, so you can go faster, but we recommend slower pacing so you have a chance to really retain the things you learn. This gives you the very best chance to experience lasting change and a securely earned attachment style.
Q: What results can I expect?
Our expressed goal is to help you learn to Love yourself, the life that you are living, and others (in that order!).
After being a Love School member for a just few weeks, you will feel the following changes in your life:
You will see yourself as a valuable and worthy person
You will feel more comfortable around people
You will start loving yourself more, and worrying less about what others think
You will know how to deal with anxiety whenever it comes up (which it will)
Your relationships will improve as a result of you becoming more secure (secure is attractive!)
Other people might notice you becoming more confident, calm, and happy
You will find it easier to be social and find love
If you are in a relationship, you will have a lot more clarity about the relationship