“If they could just change, everything
would be okay.”
Life could go back to the way it was.
We would be happy …
Does this sound familiar?
“They want to change.”
“They apologized and said things would be different this time.”
“Yesterday was a good day.”
You’ve seen them at their best, on their good days.
“They adore you,” they say.
They want “to be with you.”
They would “do anything for you.”
But, more than good days, there are bad days.
Days of broken promises.
Lonely nights.
And endless waiting.
Waiting for change that never comes.
Waiting for a text back.
Waiting for help with the kids.
Waiting for them to get a job.
To drink less.
To stop yelling.
To start therapy.
Maybe it’s only been a month of waiting.
But, maybe it’s been years.
So, why do you keep waiting?
You stay because:
You hope.
You love them.
You’re strong.
And you are. We know you are.
And we know you can break this pattern of codependency because of how strong you are.
Love School can help.
Start by taking our free quiz and learn what kind of attachment style you have.
Are you codependent?
Signs of a codependent relationship
Neglecting your own needs
Do you say “yes” when you want to say “no”?
Do you feel exhausted, sacrificing time for yourself to help your partner instead?
Anxious attachment style
Do you constantly wonder what your partner thinks of you?
Do you frequently worry about being abandoned or not being enough for your partner?
Lack of boundaries
Do you feel if you set boundaries you will lose the love you so deeply desire?
Is it just easier to give in sometimes and not deal with it?
Codependency:
Definition by Mental Health America 2024
Co-dependency is a learned behavior that can be passed down from one generation to another. It is an emotional and behavioral condition that affects an individual’s ability to have a healthy, mutually satisfying relationship.
It is also known as “relationship addiction” because people with codependency often form or maintain relationships that are one-sided, emotionally destructive and/or abusive.
The disorder was first identified as the result of years of studying interpersonal relationships in families of alcoholics. Co-dependent behavior is learned by watching and imitating other family members who display this type of behavior.
It is not your fault! And you’re not crazy.
The good news?
You can heal and become secure.
Step 1
The first step to heal as part of the Love School program is to take our anxious attachment quiz.
Find out what kind of attachment style you have and how it may be impacting your codependent patterns.
The Love School Program
Love School is here to help you feel calm, peaceful and less anxious.
If you join Love School today you’ll receive:
Coaching
Instant access to Psychologists and Coaches
Get immediate insight on what you’re going through right now.
Connect with coaches over DM chat.
Join live group therapy sessions daily.
Optional schedule 1:1 therapy sessions for discounted rate of 4 for $399
Coursework
Access to all 23 course modules and videos
You’ll get started with lessons on attachment styles, overcoming insecurity, mastering emotions, relationships and more.
Essential tools that you can take with you anywhere.
Exercises that help you gain clarity during anxious times.
Insight into yourself and your partners — past, present, and future.
Community
Your invitation to our 24/7 online community space
We’ve built a beautiful environment where members share stories, chat, attend group sessions, take in new daily content, and sometimes just hang out. Simply: friends and peers help the healing process.
Once you join you will receive your invitation to come in and say hello. Members just like you are waiting to welcome you.
Pricing
The Love School Program is a monthly membership plan for $99/per month.
Join today for as long as you need, ending your membership when you feel ready.
We also offer a 6-month Signature Membership for those who want peace of mind and savings that come from a pre-payment option.
The monthly membership includes:
Month-to-month access
23+ courses
Daily group therapy sessions
DM chat with coaches
Discounted rate on 1:1 coaching
(4 sessions for $399)
The signature membership includes everything in the monthly membership, plus:
Six-month community access
12 Prepaid 1:1 coaching credits
Access to longer, 75-minute coaching (Booked as 1½ credits)
Personalized self soothing, meditation and visualization exercises
Build Secure Attachments with Love School
The Love School program offers a three-prong approach to heal anxious attachment. We believe that coursework expands your knowledge, coaching integrates that knowledge, and community empowers you to put it into action.
6 course units
Our program offers six main units in the anxious attachment course, with 23+ video lessons on attachment styles, overcoming insecurity, mastering emotions, relationships and more.
Tools that help you heal
Learn about attachment styles and improve self-worth
24/7 community access
Love School has a thriving community of members, offering various ways to connect. Members share stories, experiences, their wins and challenges, and form healthy bonds with one another.
Curated online community led by our team of coaches
Peers sharing experiences and support
Group and 1:1 Coaching
Our team has decades of expertise in various areas including attachment and childhood trauma, cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness and more.
DM chat with therapists
Daily activities and live therapy group sessions with coaches
Love School is here to help.
Start by taking our attachment style quiz.
Our Team
Our team consists of certified & licensed psychologists and coaches.
Elisa Monti, PhD
Dr. Elisa Monti is a voice-specialized psychologist with a PhD from The New School for Social Research, with a focus on attachment and childhood trauma.
LeMeita Smith, PhD
Dr. LeMeita Smith is a mental health director and wellness expert with over 17 years of experience in therapy. She helps people build mental strength, develop life skills, and overcome life crises.
Hannah Rivera, MSc
Hannah Rivera is a certified psychologist and psychotherapist with a masters in clinical psychology from the Hellenic American University. She’s an expert at CBT and psychodynamic therapy.
Melissa Maxx, Coach & Author
Melissa is a certified coach and best-selling author specialized in relationships and attachment, and with a focus on mindfulness, self-esteem, and self-worth.
Michelle Fernandes, MA
Michelle holds a psychology degree and is our community manager. She is here to make sure everything flows smoothly for you and you have success in your journey with Love School.
What Are People Saying?
Are you ready to stop obsessing about others, become secure, and be present to your own needs?
Many of us have been there.
Like, Melanie, who stayed in an unhealthy relationship for years, sure it would get better.
Until it didn’t.
10 years later.
The signs were there at the beginning, within the first six months.
But she stayed, because she believes in the good of all people.
And she loved her family.
So, she stayed and she tried to make it work.
But, after seven breaks and separations, after ultimatums and counseling, she found herself still totally lost in confusion.
Lost about the decision of whether to stay or go.
With three kids at home, she didn’t know what the right thing to do was.
Confused and anxious, it affected her life in many ways.
She even left the gas station with the hose still in her car! Not once, but twice within 6 months.
A $2000+ expense.
You see, copendency has consequences impacting your everyday experience.
And yes, people might be good at heart, but if they are not willing to face their pain how can they heal?
They have to do it on their own.
And so do you.
Like Melanie, who overcame codependency.
Who decided to leave.
Who decided her wellbeing was worth it.
Who decided that her children needed a mom with a clear mind.
Fast forward to today, she is divorced and thriving, supporting her family and living in a home she purchased herself.
You can do it too.
And, we are here to help.
3,266 members +
Frequently Asked Questions
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Most students experience their first shift in how they feel about themselves within 2 weeks. However, we believe it takes the full length of the program (3 months) to see a lasting change. It really isn’t all that complicated once you have the right guidance.
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Love Addicts is based on proven psychology methods and therapies. After being on Love Addicts for a few weeks, you will feel the following changes in your life:
You will feel more comfortable around people
You will see yourself as a valuable and worthy person
You will start loving yourself more, and worrying less about what others think
You will know how to deal with anxiety whenever it comes up (which it will)
Your relationships will improve as a result of you becoming more secure (secure is attractive!)
Other people might notice you becoming more confident, calm, and happy
You will find it easier to be social and find love
If you are in a relationship, you will have a lot more clarity about the relationship