It’s time to heal your anxious attachment.
Overcome your relationship worries and become more secure in as little as 2 weeks.
Have you felt insecure your whole life?
Constantly pretending? Low self-esteem? Hard time trusting others?
Sabotaging your relationships? Craving intimacy yet feeling unwanted?
You are not alone.
These are all symptoms of what is called an anxious attachment style. Psychologists found that 1 in 5 adults use this style to guide their relationships.
It is something we inherit from our childhood relationship with our parents, so it’s rarely our fault. Yet, it seems like it’s in charge of our life.
Anxious attachment causes us to obsess over whether someone wants us, is texting us, or is just thinking about us.
And when they don’t? We resent them and withdraw. And the negative feelings take over, leaving us paralyzed and unable to function in life.
The good news?
You can heal and become secure
Let me know if this sounds familiar.
If you are single:
Dating almost takes up your entire mind. You’ve been trying to find intimacy for a while. But, you just cannot seem to find the right connection, even though you have so much going for you.
You try to exercise, travel, read, learn instruments, buy nice clothes, work on yourself, and go to gatherings and meetups. All in hopes that one day you will finally be enough.
Yet, it seems most people don’t see that. They might give you compliments, but it doesn’t feel like you’ve gotten anywhere. And the times you do finally connect with someone, it just doesn’t feel right.
You might still be in contact with your ex(s), or you cannot seem to fully move on from them. If you’ve never had a relationship, you feel like you will never fully find love.
It feels very difficult to you, yet it seems easy for others. You blame your looks, personality, or situation. Yet, deep down, you know you’re actually a decently attractive person.
Why is it so hard to just find love… such a basic human need?
If you are in a relationship:
You wake up and go to check your phone, hoping for a text from your partner. If you don’t see a loving text, you feel weird and anxious, sometimes even resenting them.
You go about your day, they are always on your mind. Yet, you don’t know if you are on theirs. You hope that they will one day finally see your value and want you as much as you want them, but it never happens.
You find yourself pursuing them as they distance themselves. The intense intimacy you had in the beginning of the relationship seems to fade away each day. You’re with someone, yet you feel alone and insecure.
They try to meet your needs, yet it never feels enough. You constantly think about pulling away or breaking up. Your pride is shaken. You feel trapped and there’s no way out.
Sometimes, if you’re dating someone secure or more anxious than you, you may find the opposite dynamic happening. You may find them coming closer, while you constantly pull away, feeling lost.
Why can’t you just relax and be in a happy, stable relationship?
How do I know all of this?
Because I’ve lived through it my whole life.
Hi, I’m Nour
I’m the founder of Love Addicts. Just like you, my attachment style is anxious. But I don’t like to use that word anymore. Let’s use “love addict” instead, shall we?
I’ve struggled with relationships and confidence my whole life. No matter what I did or who I dated, I always felt I wasn’t enough.
One day, I had enough. I went back to school and studied psychology at the University of Amsterdam. I also hired a confidence coach and read every book I could find on love, relationships, and happiness.
I developed an entire framework to keep my attachment at bay, and finally feel secure. It’s built on proven therapy strategies and a safe community.
Because I know how painful it is, I want to help as many people as I can. So I’ve made it my mission to share my framework with you.
It all begins with a decision. Do you want to spend the rest of your life feeling like this?
Or would you rather embrace your nature, finally feel lovable, and get your needs met?
Here’s how to heal…
There’s only one way to heal anxious attachment: by changing the belief system you currently hold about yourself and about other people.
This means you have to become someone who believes they are valuable, lovable, trusting, social, and able to find love and intimacy easily.
But that feels impossible when your thoughts and feelings are working against you all the time, right?
That’s where Love Addicts comes in. We’ve put together the only system in the world that heals your anxious attachment and helps you become more secure.
With Love Addicts, 3 things will happen:
You will change your beliefs about yourself and start thinking like a secure person.
You will belong to a safe community that you can come to for support in anxious times.
You will have access to a psychologist who provides professional feedback when needed.
Everything you need to heal…
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Love Addicts contains multiple courses on everything you need to heal your anxious attachment. Courses include topics on self-esteem, dating, breakups, confidence, finding yourself, and more.
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Twice a week, our psychologists go live and give a group session on aspects of anxious attachment. You’ll be able to ask questions directly in the chat.
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Love Addicts is first and foremost a community of people who identify with anxious attachment. Inside the community, you will be able to ask other members questions, and get answers and similar experiences.
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Inside the community, you will have direct access to a psychologist who will be monitoring posts and providing professional feedback.
What’s included in Love Addicts?
In short, all the tools you need to become secure, once and for all.
Once you join Love Addicts, you will be part of a community of over 300 people going through the same attachment style.
The community contains spaces and a chat where you could post or vent, and is moderated by psychologists who will answer all of your questions.
You will also receive access to 11+ courses on every aspect of anxious attachment.
These courses will show you exactly what to do to turn your life and your relationship around.
Access To Weekly Therapy Sessions
Twice a week, our psychologists go live for 1 hour in a group therapy session about anxious attachment.
You can join these sessions for free, and ask questions during each one.
Love Addicts also comes with the following bonuses:
Free journal: Join within 10 minutes of completing the quiz and receive a free Love Addicts journal
Heartbreak Remedy: A proven approach to heal and get over any breakup by coach Omir Dzelilovic
Personal feedback: You can send your current situation to our psychologist and receive feedback on it
Are you ready to stop obsessing about others, become secure, and be present in your life again?
How do I get started?
If Love Addicts helped you become secure and find fulfilling relationships, what would it be worth to you? Personally, I would give anything for that.
Initially, we wanted to make this free. But we realized that people weren’t as motivated to put in the work when we did that.
We found that having some investment is necessary for your growth.
So we decided to give you two options to join Love Addicts:
Option 1: $149 every month
Option 2: $597 every year
We think that’s just enough to keep you invested in your healing, but not too much that it’s unaffordable.
Does that sound fair? If so, please take the attachment quiz to make sure this is for you. If it is, you will receive an invite to join!
What Are People Saying?
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"This program has probably saved my relationship with a girl I love."
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"I’m 3 weeks out from the FINAL breakup and beginning to heal, feeling strong enough for the first time to not fall back to him. Thank you Nour for this community!"
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"I’m so glad I have this program to fall back on. I’m glad we can all share and grow together. "
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"This website has helped me so much! Every time I log on I understand myself better and realize I’m not crazy!"
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"Listening to the courses has really helped me understand what not to continue doing! It's not easy but I started working on this a week ago and it's helped "us" tremendously!"
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"I feel really grateful to have discovered this support. Hearing myself within the description felt so relieving because I know that I am on the way to getting the help that I need."
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"Thank you. I'm grateful to have found you and this community. It has literally begun to help within the first day."
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Even just coming here and sharing the front page of the website with my GF to help her see that others experience what I do has helped tremendously.
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Such a relief to understand why I act the way I do. This website has helped me tremendously!
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How fast will I become secure?
Most students experience their first shift in how they feel about themselves within 2 weeks. It really isn’t all that complicated once you have the right guidance.
Q: What results can I expect?
Love Addicts is based on proven psychology methods and therapies. After being on Love Addicts for a few weeks, you will feel the following changes in your life:
You will feel more comfortable around people
You will see yourself as a valuable and worthy person
You will start loving yourself more, and worrying less about what others think
You will know how to deal with anxiety whenever it comes up (which it will)
Your relationships will improve as a result of you becoming more secure (secure is attractive!)
Other people might notice you becoming more confident, calm, and happy
You will find it easier to be social and find love
If you are in a relationship, you will have a lot more clarity about the relationship
Q: Is there a guarantee?
Yes! We believe so much in our approach that if you don’t feel you’re becoming more secure within 2 weeks, we will give you a full refund.
Ready to finally heal and become secure?
Join Love Addicts Today!
Before you join, we want to make sure you actually are anxiously attached so we know we can help you.
The quiz is free and only takes 1 minute to complete. By the end of it, you will know your attachment style.
If you are a love addict, you will receive an invitation to join.
Begin the quiz to see if you can join!
(Quiz length: 10 questions)